Who Do You Think You Are?

You have heard it.

I heard it.

We can laugh about it because it so often.

I am talking about the snarky voice in your head, mouth, if you think a little more daring, or a little decadent, or self-care.

This is the voice that says, "Who do you think you are?"

I'm embarrassed to admit, but to me shows how a group of high school girls.

are your eyes with thick black pen. They wear concert T-shirts. Their hairs are burned at home many perms. One of them steps forward and says, with hands on their hips, "Who do you think you are?" And then she turns to the other and says: "Who does she think she is?" Then they all have an aggressive step forward. (Welcome to an average day in my old school!)

Joy My friend told me that "Who do you think you are?" Jumps in hanging, if they are on the sofa reading magazines.

A few years ago, I saw Oprah talking. She said that whenever she wanted, longer to reach the first voice she heard was "Who do you think you are?"

Every woman I know has their own version of this voice is waiting in the wings.

In other words: Stay, play small, turn, and not embarrassing themselves. Do not even bother because you will not make that you do not deserve, and everyone knows it, and they all laugh when you fail.

So, the next time that the voice jumps in the head, here is what you do:

answer.

Really. Who do you think you are?

One time I was saying, a mentor to some fears that an election comes around, I could.

I said, "... and all the voices in my head saying, 'Who do you think you are?"

And he looked at me and said, "Well? Who do you think you are?"

I smiled and continued with my story.

He cut customs

"No. Stop. I really want to know. Who do you think you are? Tell me now."

In a very small voice, I told him.

Then he made me say it again in a larger, stronger voice. And, once again, after that.

He said: "It. Now you have an answer for your vote."

Now I have to exercise every time, if the votes.

Here's a tip:

If you answer this question, the language says that the truth about your strengths and values.

In other words, it is authentic.

It is tempting to recite, that sounds a little "high" or "holy" as "I am a divine being, the life of perfection with divine power and grace."

Okay, fine.

true as it may be, if this language is not resonant with you, you never feel any bolder, and the high-school girl with the black eye pencil is their cigarettes on your shoe.

Co-op deficiency

My theory is that "Who do you think you are?" is actually a co-op.

It is a joint institution of the votes say "with us to the shortage that we see! Agree with us that there are no other possibilities! Agree with us that nobody has the power over life!"

It is actually very useful.

It is convenient, this world-view, because they permit you to stay stuck. It assumes that you never do anything about it, because after all, with a world-view!

Think about it.

If you say, "I no longer want to work with this abusive customers," You also say "and I think there are many others out there for me."

If you say, "I am a nap now, and I will be more productive and happier, because," They also say "and I believe that there is more than enough time for me to my to-do's done."

Get it?

essentially, you say, the Co-op, that you have decided to create a whole new world-view!

Extra Credit Bonus Tip

Let us be honest.

Probably there are occasions when you have to say: "Who does she think she is?" (Even if it's just in my head.)

Do not be ashamed. It simply means that you have more possibilities to lack the old mentality. In general, the mentality to say: "I feel small and bad, so that they are too small and too poor." We have all caught doing.

Even if it is unpleasant, you can choose to bless or praise those who seems to be the major steps in their lives. Then remind yourself again that you believe, and with it!

Autor: Christine Kane

While songwriter Christine Kane is best known for her hip and catchy tunes, and the down-to-earth wit of her live performances, her fans and students share that they are inspired most by her message of living authentically, passionately and courageously.

Christine's philosophy is that you are the artist and your life is your work of art. That, she says, is what it means to "Live Creative" She now shares this message nationally, speaking to groups ranging from the Air Force to the American Hospital Association to NICU therapists. Christine's award-winning blog ranks among the top 10,000 blogs on the internet.

Christine has released six CDs and an award-winning DVD in her expansive career as a performer and songwriter. She has toured the country many times over, sharing the stage with everyone from John Mayer to the Beach Boys to Nanci Griffith. Border's Books & Music named her one of the Top Five Recordings of 2003, the Washington Post called her "a petite powerhouse of a singer"

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Added: March 31, 2009
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